TSSI #9 – Low Expectations, High Standards

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Today, I'm going to delve into the concept of "Low Expectations, High Standards".

Often, we associate high performance with setting lofty expectations.

But, what if I told you that the secret to achieving greatness lies in combining low expectations with high standards?

I believe that most people fail because they do they do the exact opposite:

  1. They have extremely high-expectations

  2. Their standards are too low

High-expectations will kill everything, including your happiness.

I've watched thousands of people fail to get the best out of themselves.

The biggest challenges they face are:

  • Staying motivated

  • Avoiding self-sabotage

  • Giving their best efforts

Applying this concept will help you overcome these challenges.

Here's how:

Low expectations

"Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed." - Alexander Pope

The biggest reason for unhappiness is unmet expectations.

So, doesn't it make sense that we keep low-expectations.

Acknowledge that progress takes time and allow yourself the space to grow at a steady pace.

  • Don't expect to win every match or game you play.

  • Don't expect every sales pitch to go right.

  • Don't expect every social media post to go viral.

Have low expectations when it comes to short-term outcomes.

On the contrary...

High Standards

"Set high standards and few limitations for yourself." - Anthony J. D'Angelo

While you lower your expectations, never compromise on your standards.

Maintain unwavering integrity and pursue excellence in what you do.

Hold yourself accountable and demand the best from yourself and others.

Just to be clear, these high standards relate to the things that are in your control, such as:

  • Attitude

  • Effort

  • Energy

  • Respect for others

  • Focus

  • Intensity

High standards have nothing to do with outcomes.

Wrapping Up

Embracing low expectations while maintaining high standards fosters continual growth.

Simply:

  1. Have low expectations when it comes to outcomes

  2. Have high standards when it comes to things within your control

This will lead to greater performances and personal growth.

Remember, success is not a destination but a lifelong pursuit.


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